Oh, Carter, Mr. Suz said exactly the same to me last spring when I first debuted it!
And as the season went on, and I kept wearing it, there were a few raised eyebrows. And then one day he said, "You know, I think I can see why you like that way of wearing your tops."
This is when I raised my eyebrow.
"Oh?" I said. "What would that be?"
"Well," says he. "It's kind of relaxed...but not too relaxed. And it gives you a nice...curve."
Colour me astonished! So then I told him that it's just as magical for curvier women (I'm a bit rectangular.) He nodded along to this in full agreement.
As Angie so aptly puts it, sometimes the eye just needs time to adjust.