I'm size 14 and I'm wide on my hips and not that big on top. I use size XL for the top. My arms are kind of wide too. Sometime I see some plus size womens how they dress and they look real nice but when I want to wear something similiar it doesn't look good on me. So what type on clothing should I be wearing? I like to dress mostly casual and sometimes I would like to wear dresses but I can't never find one that will look good on me because of my hips.