Style definition not withstanding, I really enjoy the look and feel of a bit of polish (simple clothes with simple lines that fit lovely and are in great shape) mixed with very rugged, masculine elements. My own curvy shape and feminine features tends to add enough of that to my look.

I have had a horrible time in recent years finding scoop and v-neck tops that don't shift around or gape and leave the bra on display. I do wear button downs, but I've mostly switched to crew neck shirts and sweaters. I love the way they look on me by themselves.

However, I find the crew necks very hard to layer, to my eye they often look awkwardly high. Also, necklaces (especially my chunky pendants or pendants on a beaded strand) seem to compete with the neckline.

What am I doing wrong here?

I recently bought several new crew necks and new jeans. However, I just can't figure out what works with them. I can't wear most accessories due to work, and even my jacket options are limited because of the job.