Thanks Liz
I haven't figured out how to post a pic but I took your advice.
When I consider my silhouette from my shoulders down I'm an hour glass ,,, I just never looked at myself that way,,, because I often thought of an hour glass bust and hips being the same size ,, but when I visually draw lines from my shoulders I can see the hour glass shape although less curvy on top as bottom ,,,, my shoulders are the same width as my hips at low point,,, and my waist is defined ...thank you!!! You and surefit have been so helpful!!!
One thing I would like to share about jeans.... Like the advice on avoiding muffin top I have found low rise jeans don't work ,, I get muffin top and when I sit plumbers butt!!!! With my underwear showing ,,, higher waisted jeans are great! Jones of New York makes a fabulous Jean with built in tummy panel as a bonus!!! They work great for slimming and accentuating a small waist and avoiding muffin top