My husband and I call each other “girlfriend” and “boyfriend” too. Twenty years since we started dating!
I enjoy hanging out with him (dinners, coffee in the morning, whatever time!), playing with our dogs, walking/hiking and even a little running in the woods or exploring neighborhoods. Bicycling also (hoping to get back into it this year, plus maybe stepping up the running again too). Swimming in the summer. Exercise like running makes me happy when I’ve finished it.
Reading novels, nonfiction, and magazines. Photographing and editing my photos, doing the creative part of my work (working on my pattern series, etc). Going to live music shows. Hanging with friends (usually going out for a meal or a drink or seeing a show). Going to art events if I don’t feel pressure to network.
I even enjoy cleaning and organizing if it’s not the down and dirty stuff like scrubbing the bathroom. I find it very satisfying to have an organized home and get stressed when it gets really dirty or untidy.
And yes, I also enjoy shopping!