I will be attending at least 4 weddings in the next year, 2 this fall. I am starting to look at dresses, and am seeing a lot of beading, soutache, and lace. To me, these skew Mother-of-the-Bride. Thing is, I am old enough to be one, so once I remove too-short, too-lowcut, too-tight, no prints, I am left with a lot of black dresses or the above. Looking for advice, I guess, as to what makes a MOB dress vs. a wedding guest dress a 50+ woman should wear. Do you think there is a difference?