My SIL's wedding is in a couple of days and I'm still undecided about what to wear. About a month ago, she asked SO and I to march. At that point, I had already ordered and returned 10s of dresses. I've whittled my options down to the following.

Note that I already own #1 (not the shoes) and #2. #3 pretty much represents why I don't do chiffon, for posterity's sake. #4 (wearing 4" heels) and the like require a bra, and possibly Spanx, which I don't own.

I'd love to ride this out in black pants and a white shirt, but would never be forgiven.

Preferences? Are #1 and #2 suitably fancy? It's a formal wedding, about 400 invites. The black gown is an option, and is en route.

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