Thanks, everyone, for kind comments and ideas. You have got my mind percolating, a good thing!
First, though -- LisaP, I am sorry -- the "bionic" was a bit of hyperbole on my part. I didn't get a whole shoulder replacement (thank god) although it sometimes feels that way. What I did get was a big honking plate of metal and some screws to hold my clavicle together. I am doing really well with range of motion, and have started some light resistance training again, and I am mostly pain-free -- except when I am not. There can be random moments when I'll get twinges for no apparent reason and other times when that side just feels tired, for want of a better way to put it, And what I find is that any kind of crossbody strap (especially resting on the affected shoulder, but even a crossbody going the opposite way) seems to affect the spot where I had surgery and makes it uncomfortable.
It's hard to know if this is temporary or more permanent. I'm hoping temporary, because I do get better day by day. but in the meantime, I need a bag.
Gretchen, that's a fun bag! But yes -- so pricey, so I love your idea of second hand. I'll be in Vancouver next week and I'm going to hunt in my favourite consignment shops.
Lisa, what a smart observation about Outlet vs. regular stores for bags! I should check a Coach outlet and may do so if I get a chance on my Vancouver trip.
Sal, I was wondering about fabric or nylon, too, although I don't think weight is really the problem, per se -- it seems to be more about weight distribution, if that makes sense.
Jaime, thanks. If we were in the same city, I'd be asking you to come bag shopping with me.
JAileen -- I hope the pants work for you! Let us know! I also like the idea of a convertible bag -- that's actually what my Coach bag is -- there is a strap to make it crossbody.
pirouette, thank you! I love your idea that silver loafers are Irish sandals! Perfect!
Janet, shoe twin! I like your new bag! It is fun. It looks like it is sold out on Nordstrom (not that it would be in my price range there anyway with the conversion to CAD$) but it might be available in store somewhere. You get me on the silver hardware thing. Almost all my current bags are compromise bags because of the gold hardware, sob..
Angie, a belt bag might potentially work but they feel a bit casual for what I want. Ok for days when I am going on a hike or something, but not for regular wear. (I know people do wear high end ones but for me they look so sporty.)
Star, thank you!
And thanks to those who mentioned my ability to make new items work with the old, or maybe just to wear my new items -- "working seamlessly" could mean either or both, I guess.
I was about to brush off the compliment, but on reflection, I do think it's a closet superpower of sorts....to be able to sense how I might wear something as I try it on in store, or when buying online --- it's kind of like being able to imagine how an empty room will look with furnishings, maybe?
But I actually think a lot of Fabbers have this ability, and Angie of course has it in superabundance.
I tend to think that if you have identified and have in place your personal essentials, it's a lot easier. So, you know when you're buying if you are filling a hole, and you also know what other items could potentially work with the piece. Of course sometimes, when you get an item home, it doesn't quite work as planned because proportions aren't quite right or the colours are a bit different than you remembered. But as often as not, you'll find a happy surprise instead -- unsuspected or unexpected pairings.