My SO is on the short side for a guy, about three inches taller than me, so I can get to his height with heels. I never really think about it. I know he's been attracted to women taller, shorter, wider, and narrower than himself, and I love that he's so non-judgmental about women's bodies.

The men in my family are all around the same height as my SO and my brother's wife is just barely taller than him. I can't remember if she wore heels to their wedding but they make such an attractive and elegant couple with her tall dancer's frame.

Someone commented upthread that they couldn't see why a very tall woman would want to add height with heels. I doubt most of us of any height wear heels just because they make us taller. I wear heels (rarely) because they are sexy, because they are interesting pieces of wearable art, because I like how they make me feel. Height might be part of that but it's far from the whole story, and why should a tall woman feel any differently about it than I do?

I wore 3+" heels to my senior prom and was on top of the world because of it. My date was 6'3, I hit 5'10" by the age of 14. But then we showed up at the dance and all people could talk about was how tall Kevin and I looked. Granted it didn't help that we both were string beans with no meat on us. Ugh. I had worn flats to every single dance before this, so it was a big ego hit. It is a bit weird how uncomfortable I am with towering over people. My mom is also 5'10" and wore 2-3" heels with her business suits, making her eye to eye with my dad. She has always had the best posture and confidence in heels.
My DH is 6' but not a very big guy, maybe 165# wet. I wear heels on occasion but not often and have to give myself a little pep talk that it is OK to be taller than everyone else. The thing that drives my nuts is that it is nearly impossible to find fun, fashion forward, interesting heels that are under 3". Given the limit supply, fit issues, just not the right style color I need, my options are very restricted. OK - a bit of a rant. When I see tall women rocking sky high heels I am in awe! I just have to take my 6'+ moments in small doses, preferably with my DH at my side.

I've never consciously considered height a requirement, but I've never been attracted to shorter men, either. I've always had a definite "type", which was pointed out to me by friends because I had not recognized it myself. My DH is 6'8" and I am about 5'3". Before I was married, I rarely dated a man under 6'3", although I never felt that I had rejected anyone due to their height (perhaps I did and didn't realize that stature played any part in it).

However, I do not think that a woman being taller than her partner is odd or unusual at all. When DH and I were out for NYE once, there was a man with a woman who was easily 8" or more taller than he was, and he wasn't short. She was well over 6' without shoes, and she was wearing some killer heels. She looked gorgeous, and they looked fabulous together. I admired the confidence they both rocked.

Height IS a topic in our household. DH is 6ft 2, and DS's #1 and #2 are 6ft 4+ and 6ft 3 respectively. The men run on the slim side as well. I've never felt 'dainty' since even though tall, DH was so very slim! (Still slim, but not AS slim, now!). At 5ft 7+ I feel stumpy in low heels around the guys, but my fussy feet prefer a lower heel height. For social situations I get out the heels! Much easier to dance....

I did gravitate towards tall slender guys, but once dated a guy my height. He was easy to dance with, and to kiss standing up. He liked it when I wore heels! I also dated a guy who was a 'bigger' guy. He was incredibly nice to me, and very sexy! We were young, and still experimenting, so didn't date long. I sometimes wonder what lucky woman snagged him!

No issues with height difference in couples, though some of the extreme differences look a little off. More important things than height and weight for a couple to be compatible!

I really never considered it but I never considered looks of any type, anyway. It is funny, though, I have always been drawn to the same build, stocky and on the shorter side. I dated other builds but the ones that stuck were these.