This has been such a great and illuminating discussion.
Quietgirl, if it will make you feel any better, before I joined YLF I had an entire wardrobe of "essentials" (and mostly boring low quality ones at that) -- apart from one or two items that I splurged on for a once-in-a-lifetime occasion. And only because it was a once-in-a-lifetime kind of occasion did I give myself permission to buy those. I could never have done it otherwise. In fact, even when I splurged, I actually bought two true statement items and three or four really high quality essentials.
But that purchase taught me a few things.
1. The statements made the essentials feel better and go further.
2. The essentials in higher quality made me feel so fab I didn't always need a statement.
Interesting, no?
Looking back at the list I posted on the blog, I have a few refinements:
Button front shirts -- yes, and I do update regularly. And this includes cotton and silk, sleeved and sleeveless, because of my climate.
BUT... my plain button front, and even my silk camp shirts, or my tux shirts may be essentials -- but the Zara oversized back-pleated shirt is a statement, even though it's white (a neutral).
Jeans (blue and white are essential -- patterned and others are statement).
Turtlenecks -- my alternative button front. My fitted and fluid plain ones are essentials; my colourblocked hi-low is a statement.
High necked linen tees --- these are a summer essential, equivalent to turtlenecks in winter for me.
Wool/ cashmere sweaters -- but these come in categories. My core neutrals (grey, ink, navy, winter white, taupe) are essentials.... but patterned and brightly coloured sweaters are statements.
Blazers -- navy and taupe and even black are essentials (although they have design elements that make them special). Blue jacquard or patterned ones are statement.
Peacoat (or similar) -- in black and navy (as it is) an essential. In another colour, possible statement.
Puffer -- in grey (as it is) an essential for my climate.
Trench coat -- in a neutral -- an essential.
Chelsea boots -- core style element and in a simple version, an essential. More fashion-y versions are statements.
i feel as if this is no way enough to make my wardobe fully function. I can't really do with only Chelsea boots as shoes, for example! Flat (ish) sandals are also an essential (but that's more than 10). I also need a dress, a skirt or two, a few belts and a bag or two...OY, we are already edging up to double digits....