I guess the thing was, somehow my dress sort of emphasized the bust and deflated it at the same time. There was a suggestion, a demarcation of the line under the bust but the more I looked... well I couldn't find the actual location of my actual bust. For all that the dress had stays, it lacked something in terms of structure.

I see what you are saying. For me the sheath in general is less flattering because of my lack of waste definition/ smaller hips....so its kind of straight down. BUT this one does good things to my tummy area and I like the color/material. I will try it with a proper bra. A little bust deflating for me would not be a horrible thing....although that would make the silhouette even more straight.

I have been looking at some Betsey Johnson jewelry. I found some nautical pieces I am fond of on clearance at Macy's, but I am not sure if they are nice enough. How do you all feel about her?

I am a fine silver jewelry designer ( I do art clay silver/ sterling and wire wrapping) so I can make a piece to wear, either gold or silver. My pieces are typically simple and understated.

Not sure if I want a statement necklace or sterling and white or bright blue pearls.

Thoughts?
#3 and 4 are my work.

Ok, I love those anchor earrings, but do feel your pieces are better.

Too much? Yeah.....OK. I will figure out a self design. thanks.