What would you wear with this velvet dress for a casual holiday potluck - opaque or fishnets?

Can you recommend hose or thigh-highs that will stay put? I don't enjoy the 'segmented worm' look or compression hose that bothers my abdomen.

If you are looking for a easy fitting velvet dress, I can highly recommend this one from WHBM.

https://www.whitehouseblackmar.....tId=search