Una, I am so sorry. Know that you are being a great friend and source of support for this family as they go through a terrible time.

Sending you a hug.

How goes it, Una?

They just got back from some final treatment at the Mayo and now we are setting up a support and visitation schedule to make sure he has the time he needs with his wife and kids, while still seeing all the people he wants to see. It's a journey, that's for sure. Thanks so much for asking, Rachylou.

No doubt the visiting will get busy. He may get bored, you know, of talking about death and dying... and dealing with everyone's feelings and curiosity. I was just remembering a certain family friend when he was dying, someone played gate keeper and requested people well... not to be boring. Lol. It was helpful tho.

I feel so very much for your friend and his family. My Mum died of liver cancer and was gone in 12 weeks after diagnosis. It's a VERY cruel disease and none of us thought for a second that she was going to die until the last fortnight - she was in hospice for the last week. These are still extremely painful memories for me 13 years later.

Thanks for being there for your friend and the family, Una. It's worth more than you can imagine. And your continued support will count even more. xox

I just reread your initial post, and you know Una, I think you're going to be even more supportive of this family down the road. This is your calling and you will be greatly blessed for your generous heart and spirit. xo

Ugh...that is beyond hard. Having been through similar situations I can tell you that it's best to just do something...bring food, help clean, do yard work. People are very well meaning and want to be helpful but will often ask what they can do to help and when you're in the thick of it, it is hard to think of something people that people can do for you. You are being an excellent friend by helping this family enjoy the rest of their time together.

Una, I send deep empathy for you and your friends. Angie's words are so true. Your love is a mitzvah.

My sympathy for your friend & his family.
You are such a good friend Una. Take care of yourself too.