Okay so I have a very odd shape to me and I cannot figure out what to wear. Let me start with the upper body. I have broad shoulders and I am a 36DD. I have never measured my waist but it looks to be an inch if not two inches smaller that my hips. I wear a size 8-10 usually and I have athletic looking legs. My thighs are thick and my calves are very well shaped cause I am a runner and soccer player. Now... I want to shrink my shoulders and try not to look so top heavy and look cute on my 21st birthday but I am not very girly so I have no idea what to even look for. Please help me!!