I think this new crop of high-waist jeans are confusing. I tried the Veronica Beard Button Hem jeans in my normal size and a size down and I *still* feel like they are pulling downward at the crotch. Does this mean I don't have enough rise on my body to accommodate them? Maybe that's what is happening to you, too.
I suppose a belt like the Hipsi can solve that problem by keeping them up higher on my waist throughout the day, but I am just not sure if that's the correct solution (or if the solution is to send them back).