Welcome back, Suz! We missed you. It sounds like you had a great time and your capsule served you well, but boy do I know the feeling of hugging my closet when I get home!
Interesting musings, too. I am with you in many respects. I love that we have some true minimalists here who look so amazing in their very small wardrobes. Part of me would love to do that. But it's not a very large part. I also crave variety and "the new" and have way too much fun with that part of fashion to give it up. Like Angie, I would find a very small wardrobe a punishment.
Peri, this resonated with me: "You know what? I don't want to think that hard about it! I don't care to put a number assignment to the amount of things I'm allowed to own. It just seems so arbitrary. The same way the one in, one out seems to me. Why should I have to get rid of something I like to be allowed to buy something new?"
I'm right there with you in the first part of that paragraph. I sometimes think about counting the items in my closet when these number topics come up, and then I'm like, "why?" It doesn't matter if I have space for them, I wear them, and I love them. If one of those criteria does not apply, then the numbers start to matter.
I DO try to do one-in, one-out though. That's because I do tend to shop too much, and it helps keep me in check. Knowing that I'll need to make space for a new item makes me evaluate new purchases with a tougher eye. I have two items in a bag for returns as we speak because I don't like them more than the items in my closet they would be displacing.
But back to the main topic at hand -- I love that there are so many approaches to wardrobe management and mixing here on the forum, and that all are celebrated and respected. Rock on, ladies!