Suz, I can really relate to a lot of what you've said. I don't have a long neck in particular but it's not short. I've lived in v-necks for so long (and v-neck oriented button downs) and I'm having trouble finding another neckline that works for me. I also I feel like I am starting to want a bit more coverage. I never thought I'd embrace bermuda shorts (and I still roll them up some) but now I feel a bit odd in my 7" chinos unless I'm just kicking around at home or hiking, etc.
I also have strong shoulders - and I used to like boatnecks, but haven't tried them lately. I wonder if there are any mid sleeve (elbow sleeve) boatnecks that might work? I did buy three slight scoop neck semi-loose and very soft knit tops from Talbots last year with elbow length sleeves and I really enjoy those. They are my "dressy" tees. They are just fitted enough in the bust, shoulders and arms to feel non-frumpy, you know? The have a wide band at the sleeves that really works to keep some structure. I also found a couple of "trapeze" or "a-line" style tops last year that I liked. Both had a somewhat fitted top and then sort of an A-line from the bust so it was a combination of fitted and not. One was a white tee shirt material from Ann Taylor with gold buttons down one side and a slight scoop neck, the other was a printed sleevess from Talbots and very comfortable but I found it a bit "spare" on top and had to use fashion tape to keep my bra straps from showing. I only wore it a few times so far but did get compliments on it and will wear it again.
I've looked at this one recently and considered it:
http://www.garnethill.com/retr...../281610?deOr something like this in fuschia?
http://www.garnethill.com/easy.....79984?defaHere are things maybe to look for:
1. Elbow sleeve soft knits with scoop necks or boatnecks (these don't have the same wider sleeve band I mentioned)
http://www.talbots.com/online/.....8;catId=ca2. A-line, Swing tee or Trapeze tops (various necklines/styles out there I think) I looked around but couldn't find much today
3. Gauzy tops that you can layer over a light, not tight camisole.
4. Extra light cotton lawn button downs