I feel like this every time I go out shopping, and while you don't see the busty girls represented in the store advertising, it's good to remember that you guys are out there fighting the good fight the same as I am to look well put together, not frumpy when trends say *blousy shirts are in* (insert big busty girls groan) or when you find cute tops that have no bust shaping....or god forbid you find a shirt in your size with a bust that's 4 sizes smaller than it should ever be...or buttons that hang on for dear life and show every thing in between.

But I'll tell you, sometimes when you put in more effort and look beyond the ordinary shop you go to, you find something that fits AMAZING, and suddenly...you have no bust problems. Lots of time I've realized, it's a fit problem, and just me needing to be comfortable with the fact that no, I will never be able to throw on clothes and shrink away into being not noticed. If it's going to fit me right, it will draw attention to the assets, and that's nothing to be ashamed of. I can't throw on any old boyfriend jeans and a slouchy hanes white tee and look put together. I need a fitted tee, a great bra and some better thought out curvy boyfriends to get the "just threw it on" look.

Don't give up!