Sorry for being slow today, I was able to take quick peaks at my phone, but not really able to comment. And now of courser there are so many pearls of wisdom that comment on all of them will be tough.
Sterling You are SO right. In fact, I think if I have time, I may start a whole other post based on your comment. It's the insight from those that do "know" me, esp if they are suggesting "R" that are so valuable. So I"m imensly appreciative of those that go out on a limb to be honest when they don't care for something. Not that I don't value those that like an outfit, or a piece, because it is also good to know somethings is styled well. I wouldn't be posting a "K/R" post if I was 100% sure that I wanted to keep something, then it would be a "squee, look what I got" post - like my black shearling coat. So it's comments from people here that help to put my finger on what it is that isn't working... and sometimes those things are things I don't care about, and I'll keep the piece, but sometimes they ARE, and I know to return it. And if nobody pipes up, then it probably means my hesitations are unfounded, our based on something that doesn't show up in photos. So the positive feedback is needed too!
The skirt... is going back. For various reasons. I think I've had it in my head for so long that I'd like another one (I've had several in my past) that I didn't stop to think about whether or not this is an actual hole TODAY. Several of you pointed out that my style has gone in a direction that doesn't really include this. I agree. The pockets and possible gaping.... it lay flat most of the time, but if it wrinkled up in a photo, it's going to do it in real life too! But really, I think it was going to be too much work to style in a way that didn't read frumpy, and I don't need that in my life right now. I appreciate knowing that I can make it work, but I want pieces that work without a lot of thinking. I know this could, and probably would, head to frumpyville.
So thank you so much to all. Love this place, and appreciate you all.