Thank you very much for thinking of me Kyle! You are very sweet
I have actually discovered their blog a while ago and read it occasionally. I like it a lot and am really inspired by color combos.
Unfortunately, our situations are completely different and I can not follow their examples. They are in humanities, I am in so called ' hard physical sciences'. That translates to a couple of main differences:
1. In their field there is probably at least the same, if not more women than men. In my field, an estimate of 5% women is a very optimistic.
2. They do not spend most of their time in the lab, standing for 10+ hours on their feet and working with all sorts of dangerous stuff. I do not teach.
So, I can not do many things they can when going to work/school: skirts/dresses; interesting color combos, whimsical details etc. I have to look much more serious.
But, I have actually been thinking a lot lately about strategy for dressing in my future scientific job, and talking to a bunch of people and I think I have mostly figured it out :). Some of my conclusions:
1. I will not wear skirts/dresses at all ( as well as shorts/clamdiggers), mainly beacuse the dressing code prohibits it for safety reasons when working in the lab . Also, in my field, skirts undermine authority, many people have told me that only secretaries wear them ( and I mean no offense, I love the 'secretary' look and also think that that occupation is essential and have deep respect for them). So, it is jeans/pants all the time, even on days when I will not be in the lab.
2. My dress code will be smart casual and business casual - the first one for lab days, the second one for meetings and office days. There won't be an official dressing code, so I am taking advantage of that. I do not want to look casual at work, and pantsuits will be reserved for talks/presentations.
3. I will try to stay true to my style, but subdue it a bit if that makes sense. For example, I was told that accessories sometimes make my outfit stand out, so I will go easy on them: no belts, scarves, statement necklaces etc. I will stick to my chunky white watch. I also plan to invest in a beautiful chunky silver necklace, which will be the only one I will wear to work so people will get used to it and stop noticing it. I will go a bit crazy with handbags, since they will be sitting on my desk all day and be out of sight As for shoes, they will have to be closed toes ( safety rules), so it will mainly be ballet flats, wedges and booties/boots.
4. Some other random things I figured out, mainly from talking to male friends who also happen to be scientists:
* straight leg jeans are fine, true skinnies are too sexy.
* one should avoid things that are very feminine and/or whimsical : statement ruffles ( but small ones are OK), bold florals ( small ones as well as geometric ones are fine), really bright colors such as fuchsia in big doses etc.
* one should also avoid items that look too fancy, such as shiny silk blouses (again matte silk should be fine, especially if layered under a cardi).
* it is desirable to have something on that conveys authority, such as collars ( as on collared button down shirts) and/or jackets (but in more casual materials or dressed down with jeans). One item that I think would be absolutely perfect in this regard for me would be sweater jackets - cut like blazers but made from knitted materials - I will be on hunt for these.
Of course, this would be for work only, I plan to keep dressing the same as now for my non-work occasions; so it would be about 70% work outfits and 30 % "true me" outfits. I would be very curious to know what you guys think about this plan. Many thanks!