My interest in fashion and style shows no signs of diminishing as I get older, and I consider myself pretty open minded when it comes to enjoying all the ways people at all stages of life and with all kinds of style inclinations, express themselves. Bring it on! I’ve actually been toying with ‘older and bolder’ as a style mantra going forward. More on that when I get my 2025 style thoughts together!

That said, I have been thinking about some things that affect what I bring into my closet, and how to work around ‘preferences’ so that they don’t feel like limitations when it comes to expressions of personal style. I’ve come up with a list of ‘hard no’s’ (or no buys). Maybe they are not all age related? Maybe they are not so different than issues raised by folks who don’t find fashion inclusive of their shape, size, or colouring? Here are mine. What are yours?


- No heels over 1 inch and no platforms. Just not comfortable, and I have an altered gait with a bit of a limp (improved with physio, but not completely resolved). Sturdy flat footwear, please!
- No ‘heavy’ things. Heavy wool and leather outerwear, footwear, and bags are a drag that take the charm out of wearing them, no matter how cute. Technical blends, pleather, and lighter weight versions of the real thing are okay. Cashmere is a luxury, but it’s lighter too!
- maxi length anything. Dresses, skirts, trousers or jeans that puddle. Tripping hazard! I had a trip and fall scare wearing wide leg puddling pants whilst going up stairs. They have been trimmed to sweep just above floor length.
-zippers on purses/bags. I’ve edited my bag collection of any purse with a zipper that scratches my hands when I reach inside to retrieve my wallet, keys, or other items. I’ve kept bags with a generous flap that stays closed via a magnet - and will look for this feature in any new bag I acquire. FWIW, I applaud the fashion for guitar straps for purses and bags that come with wide leather straps (vs narrow ones that bite into shoulders or chest.)
-small/tricky fasteners. Some tiny buttons or other fiddly fasteners are difficult to deal with for anyone, but finger mobility issues are a thing for me. If I have to struggle with a fastening in the change room -it’s a pass.

I’m determined to continue my fashion and style journey, and will reserve judgement on future trends and keep my poison eye in check. It may be a challenge to adopt some styles noting my ‘preferences’, but I’m undaunted!