What an interesting mixed bag of opinions! I have decided to do what E and some others have suggested and try to sell the Lanai and let the Gabe B hang around a while until I see if I ever grab it. I am keeping the TT, I really am happy whenever I put it on, but agree these weren't the ideal jeans to showcase its virtues! Thank you so much for your honest, thoughtful, encouraging and fun feedback - this means you!
(I am going to list the Lanai on the style exchange if anyone is interested.)