Very insightful and not something I had thought about before. I think this idea could be true in a lot of difficult life situations, including the unfortunately one you are in. I'm so sorry Ginny. Chin up!

Ginny,

Sending positive thoughts your way and hoping for a quick recovery!

So glad that YLF and dressing well is helping both you and your husband through this tough time. Sometimes when I am feeling down, I make an extra effort to put on a Kick-a$$ outfit! It really helps.

All the best to both of you,
Sunita

Thank you so much Ladies for all the positive energy and well wishes, they are greatly appreciated. It felt good to share and helped me to jot this down. And everyones kind words gives me a extra boost!!
@Alaskagirl- this was a sudden thing that occurred thank you for well wishes, We are getting ready for a bumpy ride
@Nancylee- I appreciate you, your insight is spot on, the most difficult thing to do is not be able to fix all this and just be there. I hope all is better with your hubs too, bless your heart
@more than beige- very well put, You are right I felt armoured and ready for the days events
@velvetychocalate- thanks for the insight, it is amazing what it conveys to others, so glad your mom is better, that is my plan, now to get there,

Ginny, I'm sorry to hear of your husband's health issues and hoping for the best for him, you, and your family! Your post was very insightful; it is indeed amazing how something like fashion gives us a sense of control, and even a little bit of extra composure can go a long way in many (sometimes unexpected) directions. Sending you the warmest wishes!