What would make me leave the item behind?— I don’t love it.
I guess my response is similar to Angie’s—for me, the perfect item comes with something that touches my soul. It could be the shape and color, the wittiness of the design, the associations that are aroused within me—or simply the pleasure I feel every time I see the item. All those qualities you list are definitely important, but, ultimately, my best wardrobe decisions have always been made quite easily because it’s my instincts and feelings which make me certain I’m on the right track. The item just seems RIGHT for me. It’s when my head starts trying to come up with reasons that I get off track…