Thank you all!
Kari: I did come across the blog a while back and browsed through, thank you for reminding me about it, I'll read more, there seem to be a lot of various shoes recommended, good choices for fall, too. I find it most difficult to find sandals AND fall/spring shoes (ballet flats or similar) that don't kill my feet. For some reason, boots are not that much of a problem, I lived in the MM King the whole last winter and they are so comfortable! (and great looking, too :)) I looked at the Indigo line but the ones I like most, are the high wedges, go figure LOL. Haven't heard of Naot though, will check, thanks!
Rae: I came across the Worishofer brand, but am afraid I won't be able to pull them off.. You have a lot more confidence in dressing and can make them work for you, I envy, because they sure look comfy!
Angie: thank you for the thumbs-up for the T-bar, glad to hear you recommend it, wish there were more color choices..
Lisalou: I'm sorry to hear the Clarks/Indigo didn't work for you, I think the cute Indigos (the high wedge models like the Finch) will be a no no for my feet too
Krishnidoux: thanks for the link, I'll check them out, they seem a little too casual for what I'm looking for, but they do look comfortable, I bet you can walk for days in those. I came to agree with the higher price being worth it (well, usually), well constructed shoes will last long, and comfort is not to be beat or overlooked (I used to suffer in cute shoes when I was younger LOL, no more...)
Sarah & Isis and others who chimed in about the Danskos, thanks for the insight re:Sissys, I like them and hope they'd work for a slightly narrow foot, how is sizing with them though? I checked some reviews and they seem very inconsistent, I wear 6.5-7 which should be a true 37? Should I size up to 38?
Marianna: glad to her you have both! I know the Brisk Bangles are very casual, I don't mind, which color do you have? Do the T-bars run true to size? Would they fit a narrow-to medium foot, the front strap is not adjustable..
Biscuitsmom, thanks for the sole product recommendation, all those shoes have those squishy suede like insoles, I bet they get extra dirty with wear, it's good to know they can be cleaned! I usually avoided light color, non-leather insoles for that matter.
Thanks for the input, wow, didn't realize so many people have foot issues, will probably order all thee of them and see which one will work best for my feet..