Opaline - you are 100% right, there is no point in having something if you don't use it. I really need to work on this too.
Rachy - not Gucci, but still a very good bag!
Jessikams - very wise words. Being mindful should be a goal for me in 2019.
StyleFan - so glad I am not the only one!
Chouette22 - thank you and it is nice to know that some (hopefully most) sales assistants in designer stores treat everyone with the respect they deserve.
Nemosmum - yes please join Team Wear, I am sure it gets easier the more we do it.
Wendy - glad you like this casual outfit and the story behind the bag.
Lisa - I know!!! I seriously feel crazy not using this gorgeous bag for such a long time.
kkards - your suggestion is a very good one. I do use it when I have my Dad over for lunch, as it reminds him of Mum and he loves it.
Angie - its coming to work with me... it is going to go from being a neglected free loader to the much loved hardest working item in my wardrobe.
Jane - you have captured my thoughts and misgivings exactly and I am sure it is all just in my head.
Smittie - yes it was romantic, but the thing is, I am rarely THAT scruffy and the one time he takes me to buy a designer bag is when I am looking my worst... You are right, it is the support and love that my husband provides me that is the precious thing, not this bag.
Runcarla - a very good suggestion re: china and you are right, to not use the bag was not appreciating the gift.
JAileen - yes you are right, there is not much point in saving things. Salespeople should not make assumptions based on how we are dressed, I am well aware that this story could have had a different ending. In fact, a friend of mine who has a pretty tattoo down her arm got treated badly by a sales assistant who treated her like a potential thief rather than purchaser.
MsMaven - your situation is more tricky than mine, as I know the grained leather on my bag is supposed to be very hard wearing and it is my favourite size for an everyday bag. It is still probably better to use your bag and potentially scratch it, rather than not use it at all, possibly a once a week usage rather than everyday.
Taylor - you are very wise and I am glad to hear that you are on Team Wear and have no regrets about that.
Suz - thank you, I am glad that you don't think it is ostentatious, now I just need to use it!
Sterling - you could not be nicer, thank you so much.