I'm inspired by the "taking a stand with my summer body" series, although the change I'm making is more of a year-round one. I've always been very self-conscious about the size and shape of my thighs combined with being short and short-waisted, and have always made "minimizing" my hip/thigh area a top priority in outfit choices. I went with dark colors, straight leg, boot cut or trouser styles, and shoe-covering pant styles. Also avoided at all costs a horizontal line across that part of m body. (in summer I do wear Bermuda shorts). Not very stylish, often quite frumpy, but has been my comfort zone.

Something in my perceptions has changed. Last night I wore this out for dinner with friends. This is the first time I've EVER worn "slim" pants that follow the shape of the leg and hit around the ankle. (I hemmed them longish so cuffing is an option but not required). This sweater is new, in a pale green that's almost grey. I really like it in spite of it not perfectly fitting some theoretical definition of a "thigh slimming" shape.

Part of me does not like what I see in these photos but part of me is fine with it an that is a HUGE change for me. I actually think I look better in person than in these photos...there is something about the angle of the selfie..

My self confidence is improving in part because I'm working out more and feeling stronger (and maybe a little bit leaner) and in part because of the many encouraging comments and discussions on body image on YLF.

I am so thankful to have found such a wonderful community and want to thank you all so much!