The forum has spoken and I will be keeping the jeans. I really appreciate the validation as I'm new to the look. I'm also rather excited about expanding my jeans horizons.
Carol- The jeans are stone wash. I didn't realize that when I ordered them and might not have ordered had I known. I remember stone wash from the first time around. I had a pair that was so unsubtle in its stonewash and even 30+ years on I'm still not ready for that look again. Fortunately, these are not so over the top.
The t-shirts are going back. I think I was hesitating because I love both of the colors. The blue stripes in particular since the blue is so close a match to my blue-gray eyes. But these just aren't the ones. I very much appreciate the wisdom of the group!
In truth, I'm not sure if I actually need any more t-shirts at the moment. Angie- I love the look of the LL Bean ones you suggested but I'm not sure if the sleeves length/tightness would be practical for how hot the summers get here and the fact I don't have air conditioning at home. But if they get stocked at my local store I plan to try them on in person. And thanks for the compliment on the navy striped top. I quite like that one, but it really more of a sweater than a t-shirt so the weather will soon not be appropriate for wearing it until fall.
Lisa- thanks for the tip on the Gap t-shirts. Both the t-shirts and the jeans I posted are from a Gap Factory online order. It's further proof that it always comes down to the individual item and not to a brand...