Okay, I have to start by saying I just went back and read a lot of my posts here on YLF; y’all have been so helpful and encouraging over the several years I’ve posted. I’m sorry I’ve kind of dropped off from here; I still read every day. I’ve been struggling with my style for a good year or so. I think I’m trying to figure out how to transition into a style for my older-than-I-used-to-be self. And I’m re-evaluating everything after a year of über-casual Covid Style and am not clear how it’s all going to shake out.


ANYWAY, it’s supposed to rain all weekend; I’m leaving Monday for four days at a cottage with girlfriends, and I want to do a bit of clothes shopping in preparation. I hope to find one or two tops, and I want to look at swimwear. I had a three-piece tankini suit I loved—top, bra, and bottom; sadly, the top was lost somewhere. I have a top from another suit which works, but I don’t like it nearly as well as the one which was lost.

I haven’t worn a one-piece for several years because I’ve worried it won’t do my hips any favors. But several one-pieces have caught my eye lately. I may try a few on. I’ve even been considering one of the two-pieces with a higher-waisted bottom. If I can find something fun, current, and flattering, that will be a very successful outcome.