Ooh Karie, you are a challenge.
I see two different styles on the board. First, Modern sporty-preppy, which fits with your profile description as a sporting person and with your Demure Bombshell and Girly Tomboy personas. Structured, functional, traditional, feminine. That's 6 of your 10 photos.
The other four are a complete departure. Very What's Now. Your Fashionista persona. Dramatically flowy, unstructured, oversized, fashiony, of the moment.
Both sides are beautiful representations of their types.
What I see in common is this:
1. Simplicity. There is a clear message and relative unfussiness in all the images, even if the messages are different. This isn't eclectic or eccentric or let's-just-be-Different in any of the looks. It is what it is in a forthright, fairly pure and also strongly attractive representation.
2. Romance. Not ruffles and bows and curls romance. But still. The demure bombshell is romantic. Polka dots, waistlines, female touches over underlying structure.
The plaid sporty is romantic in the way of fondness for the reliability and integrity of tradition and functionality. The romance of Yankee tradition.
Then there is the fashionista romance. Wow. The drape and flow and goddess-ness of it. Not the hard-edged origami flatness of current lines. It's the fluid grace of a royal femininity.
All of the looks say strong female, but in very different ways.
Maybe you have these different sides of yourself that have common roots, like strong female, and you're always going to express them in strikingly divergent ways. That's cool.
Maybe you're in a style evolution, trying out different ways to express something in a variety of ways, and one will win out. Perhaps you're transitioning from one style to another and it's too soon to feel or see it gel.
Maybe you're one complex gal and will always keep 'em guessing, sometimes even yourself.
Either way, it must be an adventure.