Wow, Suz, I thought my eyes were bad! Mine aren't anywhere near your Rx, and have actually improved quite a bit in last couple of years. I've gone from -4.75 both eyes to -3.5 in one eye and -3.0 in the other. There is a correction for slight astigmatism but don't ask me what it is. My eyes continue to fluctuate a lot which is a big part of my dilemma here: I have been changing prescriptions about every 6-9 months!
Optometrist wants me to try what I guess is progressives (he did not say that word, but by what you are all describing, surely that is what he meant). When we priced them out, they were $900. Add to that contacts, and the very real potential I'm just going to need a new prescription within the same year, and OUCH.
I did pick out some specs in December, they are on hold. Maybe I'll go back and take pics to get everyone's opinion. They are much larger/rounder -- but somehow, they appealed to me. I was talking myself into splurging on them and using them primarily as sunglasses, transitional lenses, since they are big like I like my sunglasses. I figured I could get those with the progressive lenses, and see how I like them, compared to current strategy. But then the optometrist mentioned they don't darken in the car, and then he said "that'll be $900" and I balked and parked them on hold to think about.
Meanwhile, I really like these new Via Spiga's, but it seems to me that 1 inch may be too short to accommodate progressives. Hence my question tonight.
Regarding Lasik: I am unfortunately not a candidate. Apparently I may have an autoimmune disorder, which effects the eyes, and rules that option out, and makes it highly likely my contact-wearing days will be soon be over. I haven't actually been able to wear them longer than a few hours/few times a week for a long time anyway, but yeah, I am not looking forward to that day. I don't find glasses all that comfortable -- though this latest pair (Via Spiga's) is delightfully comfortable. Most comfortable frames I've ever owned, in fact.