I've been running across spats a lot lately on the crafty sites I frequent. (even found a pattern so I could make my own). I think they're really cute and fun, but am I going to look like a big dork wearing them? I can totally see a hip 20-something pulling something like this off

http://www.etsy.com/view_trans.....d=13005415

but is a 30-something mom with kids in tow going to look like she's trying too hard?