Thanks so much for all the replies. Very helpful!
I agree that the jeans outfits are not festive at all, very casual only. I didn't even wear my "dressiest" jeans for these pics .
The white topper started to look a little dirty around the edges just from one try on, and shortening it would take some work, so it's going back, that's way too impractical for me. I do like the idea of an all-white or white and gold outfit but maybe it's not going to happen this year.
Lyn67 thanks, great advice.
CynthiaWalkersmith, thanks, and yes I used to love Dana Buchman too before Kohl's bought the brand and lowered the quality. More sparkle is a good idea.
Kiwigal/Sally I agree with you about the white jacket. It's a Vince, which is a brand I want to love, but they are ALWAYS too long on me (they don't carry petites) and I need to learn to just walk away. BBQ sounds like a fun way to celebrate the holidays!
Thanks so much for the kind words El Cee, Mirjana, Aquamarine, Delurked, Ledonna, Suz, smittie, sara L, Elie, and Bonnie
Nadya, I can relate, I'm a bit of a klutz myself, and as I said earlier this jacket aired looked a little dirty around the edges just from one try on!
Celia I think I agree about the ones that don't look "festive". I always seem to struggle a bit to do "festive".
Rachylou, yes that white jacket is kapow, but for various reasons listed above it's just not going to work.
Kerlyn great ideas, I do have some silver sparkly chandelier earrings...
Angie thanks, and yes pearls would be a great addition. I don't own a party frock except a black sparkly cocktail dress which would be a bit too much for these events, nor do I own a flirty skirt of any description. Hmm...I still have time to do a little shopping before the parties hit..
Avemariah that jacket is very lightweight and is a bit snug, so I can't layer much under it but that's works find for indoors. I'll have to try it with a skirt, good idea, but for the moment all I have are plain pencil skirts in black and grey. I will definitely try it and also bring it along if I decide to do a little more shopping.