I share your ambivalence. I'm drawn to the look of interesting sneakers, especially unusual Converse types, but my feet love my wide-toed, lightweight, deep-foam-innersoled mesh Sketchers--not a fashion look on me! I compromise by wearing the Chucks casually out and about, and the Sketchers at home. Neither looks polished to me, though. I have to wear real leather shoes or boots (not mules) for that.