I could swear that I commented on this thread earlier this weekend after you uploaded your photo, but don't see the response here. It must have been during one of the computer/internet outages I had while on the road.
I wanted to say that your bangs are actually just what I was going to ask my hairdresser to do next time I go in for a bang trim. I like the medium length sideswept fringe!
Like you, I have a funny cowlick near my part. What I do is just let the part fall where it will - it tends to part even with the center of my right eye - and then I run over my fringe a couple times with a flatiron so that it won't flip out in an odd direction. This also helps "set" the part a bit better.
I'll sometimes spray a bit of this spray wax or rub some of this pomade into my hands and lightly run it over my fringe & the rest of my hair. A tiny bit of product keeps the frizzies/baby fine hairs around my face from sticking straight out in dry weather, helps keep my part/shape a bit more set, and yet both products (when used sparingly) are light enough that they don't cause me to get greasy and sticky throughout the day.
Not sure if those ideas will help, but I wanted to throw them out there just in case!