I stalked this skirt (when it went on sale) until I found it and got a great deal...who doesn't need a black skirt, midi length? http://www.anthropologie.com/a.....=412033641 Well today I thought I would wear it to work and as a size 14/16 I think I looked like a barrel in the skirt...tried a tee with a vest over it , AWFUL. It can be returned but if there is a "slimming" way to wear it that I am not aware of, please let me know. I understand I will not look slim and trim because I am not but what would be a flattering way to wear it that would not highlight my big hips/thigh? All suggestions very much appreciated.