Recently, I asked if a deep rise meant a short waist. Short answer (no pun intended) based on all of your amazing replies: no, no it sure doesn’t.

The post helped me realize proportion generalities that abound in the style world don’t do me (us) justice.

What the post didn’t ultimately help me answer is if I’m short waisted and how that works for me when dressing. I haven’t begun sewing yet-which I feel would maybe answer some of my question. (The house is still torn apart and the only place to sew is the only place to pile the coats. I can’t tell if I’m making up excuses or if it’s truly the reality of the situation. Going with the latter.)

High rises tend to be mid rise on me unless they’re truly high rise—thankfully high rises lately have been actual high rises. Mid rises usually hit 1-2 inches below my belly button, and kind of cut through my hip shelf.

I need long cuts in blouses and long torso one-piece swimsuits. But blouses sometimes can have the waistline too high on me, where it looks a bit off. This could be due to my long upper back/shoulder area though. (I have to let bra straps all the way out.)

My legs aren’t really long compared to friends of mine with classic short torso, long legs proportions or silhouettes. I’m 5’10.5 and wear a 32” inseam easily. 34 with heels. Beyond that I don’t feel I have shockingly long legs, though my knee to ankle is very slender and average to long.

Measured from the side of my torso, there’s all of three inches between my bottom rib and top of hip shelf. Which seems kind of short waisted to me? I tried Imogene’s hand trick. I honestly felt confused by it due to high hip shelf and where my waist creases when bending over—which is a good couple inches above my navel.

I was always told I had a long torso and had a lot of room especially when I was pregnant. I interpreted that as a longer waist. I wonder now if that’s been true. and I’m wondering if my long rise and deep and prominent pelvis have only made it look like I’m a long torso when in fact… I’m deep-long rise, short to average waist.

And by the way: I by no means expect anyone to have any answers. I’m probably way over thinking it I just want to understand what works for dressing myself.

Probably the biggest help I’ve found to date is stumbling across the figure 8 body shape earlier this month. It intuitively clicked for me the second I saw the photos! Dressing as a true or pure hourglass has never worked well for me. (To be fair, I don’t know if I’ve accurately analyzed my clothes and outfits over the years.) Some of it works, such as wrap tops and dresses. The rest does not. I look very wide in boot cut and flare pant lines. Every single time I try, and especially when at heavier weights They never really balance my hips and give me a long line unless paired with very high heels. I intuitively prefer most items to taper in at narrow points on my body: wrists, waist, knees, ankles. Empire waist is not good on me. Fit and flare works as a peplum but not as a skirt/dress. My pencil skirts need tapered in at the knees or I look kind of wide and dowdy. I saw it again with my latest pencil skirt post; the skirt was way better on me when the bottom tapered in at the knee. I haven’t tried a tulip skirt shape yet, but I have a feeling it would be good.

Finding that bit of info was a revelation. I actually purchased the image consultant’s webinar on it—the concept resonated that much. (Hoping to listen this weekend!) Her list of what isn’t best on figure 8 shapes was also a big uh-huh. There are some exceptions. And to be fair, a front/semi/French tuck has allowed me to wear a lot of wide, boxier style tops. And I own a 70s A-line skirt that somehow really works for me. So I feel the rules can always be bent. With styling and attitude, anyone can wear just about anything.

I’m not sharing any of this as a dressing rules thing. More just a wow… so that’s why I always gravitate towards X and feel uncomfortable in Y. As in: That’s why the peplum jacket rescued the boxy straight sack dress and made it suddenly work for me. Or why I like joggers and girlfriend/boyfriend jeans and French cuffed all my wide leg pants. I also wear a longer mine well, so I’m certainly not removing maxi skirt lengths from my wardrobe. Something else I see in the figure 8 examples are sharper necklines and shaped shoulders. I’m noticing how sharper necklines are better for me compared to rounded necklines, especially is the item os boxy or wide. ( I want to apply that more to my knitting if possible.)

Anyway… long ramblings from me. Thank you for listening. :}

I’ve still found the most help posting here, receiving your gracious feedback, and feeling out what truly is best on me from photos and feel. But sometimes my mind starts mulling and away I go…

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