Rae, you are a hoot! Janet, you are certainly welcome to come visit me!
I'm actually not much help in the boutique shopping department, as it's quite rare for me to get actual time away from the kids to shop, so I do a lot of my shopping online. It's also a bit of a drive for me to get into the city.
But here's a post that just came out about top 100 SF shops and it looks like it includes a lot of interesting indie boutiques:
http://www.sfgate.com/style/ar.....703341.php
Wish I had time to explore some of them!
Here's another link with some interesting looking options (maybe I should check out that retro Bettie Page store someday!).
http://www.yelp.com/search?fin.....k+clothing
Union Square is fabulous--so many shopping options. (PS If you're looking for a fantastic shirt, I can highly recommend Anne Fontaine). Haight would I think have the highest chance of bona fide rock n roll clothing stores though. Have fun shopping!