I managed to return the ex's Christmas pressie. I'd bought it in September but the online company were lovely enough to take it back when I emailed the situation. As a metaphorical 2 fingers up to the ex I treated myself to this bag http://www.karenmillen.com/km-.....486GR17701 with the proceeds, the most I've ever spent on a bag but it makes me happy.
I've ordered (and returned) loads over the last week or so and it's all been fun edgy 'me' things as opposed to the few practical things I've bought over the last 12 months x