Yes, Shopbop really does require you to make quick decisions! I usually try to decide right away.
R&B tops are good, in my experience. Some of my favorite basic lightweight knit tops are R&B. I almost got a zebra print tee at Bloomies until I reminded myself that I have SO many tees.
Too bad about the ALC top, but glad you had winners otherwise! That tote is great, and so are the jeans.
And tabi sneakers! How fun! I have a couple of pairs of tabi socks even though I have no need for them -- I just wear them around the house. I got them at Ten Thousand Waves in Santa Fe because they have koi fish and Hokusai waves on them.