Thank you SO much, everyone, for your words of support. You don't know how much it means.

My mom's dementia is not something new. We've known for a while. She has had two MRIs over the past couple of years, and several cognitive tests. This one is just a follow-up, because they were unable to give her a clear diagnosis last year. She technically does not have dementia, but shows symptoms of it, as well as some symptoms of Parkinson's (but not enough to be diagnosed with it), and visual evidence (from the MRIs) of many small strokes. The one thing she has for sure is called vascular cognitive impairment -- loss of cognitive function due to the strokes -- but the upshot is the same as it would be for Alzheimer's: memory loss, communication difficulties and a diminishing ability to use judgment and reasoning.

You will never hear me complain about the medical system in Canada. When you are in need, they are there.

Our house seems so empty without our sweet puppy.

I'll be back when I can, but thank you all again for taking the time to write something nice. I cried when I read your comments.

Elisabeth, I am so sorry. I've been through some similar times, as you know, and it is so hard. Words don't come close to capturing how tough it is to watch a parent's health decline, and to lose a beloved furry family member while you're going through this with your mom is just brutal on top of it all.

I'll be thinking of you. I should be finding out more about my impending surgery this week, and I have not forgotten how helpful you have been about that. I'm sending virtual hugs and good thoughts your family's way.

I am so sorry. I will keep your family in my thoughts.

{Hugs} so sorry for the loss of your dear dog and everything with your mother. On the plus side at least you are near your mom and even though she isn't always coherent I'm sure she feels the love.

Oh Elisabeth, I'm so sad for you. I live 5 minutes from where you're bringing your mom for her brain work. If you think you might ever be stuck up here with nothing to do for some reason, send me a message and I'll give you my contact info--my kids are always up for hitting the coffee shop

Sending you a hug! I am so sorry for your loss.