Hi Mo, I'm one of those who hardly ever comments on WIW, but I do check some of yours. To be honest, I actually like your outfits better than other's because I feel I could wear that myself, and that doesn't happen with other posters. I realize I normally comment on the same people (if I do), which are the ones I always, or almost always, like. Also, I live in a different country with a totallly different sense of style and many American looks you fabolous women portray look quite odd to me. Which is why I normally comment on more European-like WIW.
As for not getting comments, someone above was right: if it gets to the point where it's nerve-wreaking, just stop. After posting these two photos in a Photography Forum, I only got two replys for #2 and none for #1. And even if those are not fantastic, or spectacular, I truly believed they were worth a pretty number of replies for many reasons, including a beautiful model, a careful setting, a strange angle, a mindful postprocessing and a story in itself. Yet I didn't get any replies. I felt so bad I decided I wouldn't post on that forum again for a while. It only damaged my self-esteem, and many other posts were as average or even worse than mine.
Which gets me to the next point. After being is many foums of different themes I can say there are always those who receive a lot of comments (no matter what) and then those who don't, even if they 'deserve' them. It always happens, and it's because those people comment more on other's, or they have been around for longer, or they just sound graceful and interesting.
My point here is, don't let it get to you. We are just not worth it. Really.
PS: And when I look at you in short skirts I always think 'damn, I want mine to like like hers at 40!'
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