Nodding along with the others. I knew J. Crew Factory was a different beast from J. Crew. I think in some Racks you still get overstock from a regular Nordstrom's. But also other stuff.
I still order from J. Crew occasionally, Carla, because you know, I'm their biggest fan. (Sob!)
Also, I love your tee, which is just like mine but the opposite colourway! This boxy style is great because it can be worn alone or layered under or over.
Anyway -- with J. Crew orders, yes the duties/ taxes/ exchange boosts the already high for me price ridiculously. BUT, I tend to wait for sales, look for those times when delivery is free, and order only what I *know* will work. This is pretty easy for me because I have quite a lot of their clothes from past seasons and can compare descriptions of cuts and fits (when the fits change) and so on. I used to order from them often when I could return in store. But now I order on the range of once a year or every two years and try to get my fix when I'm in the US, like you. But always at the regular store, never the outlets.