Angie - in your article about "Tops with Pants & Skirts", you mentioned that tops should come up 1-3" from the crotch. For those of us who carry our weight in the tummy area, wouldn't it make us look bigger and bulkier? Could you post a picture of the look you are talking about? I tend to wear my tops/sweaters to my hip bone area - would that be wrong for me, an apple/rectange? Thanks Angie -- you're the best!!!!