Good question! When I was trying on a blazer at the swap, the owner said to me, "I love that blazer."
So it was automatic that I asked, "Why aren't you keeping it then?"
She responded, "Because I couldn't find a way to make it work in my wardrobe." After that statement, I realized that the blazer was a bit trendy for this gal who has great classic clothing pieces. She buys killer shoes which gives her classic pieces modern edge. So I can see how the military blazer would seem off to her.
I actually think you'll gain some new insight into why things don't work for you if you are posed this question. Maybe you will initially feel pangs of guilt over all the money spent but this give away will help get those guilt inducing items out of your life. In addition, as some have already posted in their swap experience, it is so FUN to see an orphan item of yours look STUNNING on someone else! You'll feel like you are absolutely blessing someone with an amazing gift!
I'm sure you will not be asked "why" each and every time. I don't think I would of asked my question, if the owner hadn't said she loved it.
April, don't overthink it. Just add to the swap pile if it's unloved. I didn't go around thinking anything negative about the owners of the items. I was too busy trying to grab while the going was good! LOL!
This was my first swap and I'm totally addicted now! I'm going to try to organize one for my church!
