Hi again --
Well I know I am.
But I also know that for me, figuring out the boundaries of what I find flattering on myself (in terms of colors and proportions) has gone a long way toward body acceptance.
Being analytical -- which some interpret as critical -- has actually taken away a lot of the less-positive emotions.
If one's an analytical person by nature (WHICH YOU ARE, haha) it's very hard to be told to live and let live and IME that leads to an internal fight between how one "knows" s/he is supposed to feel and what the brain wants to do.
Easier to treat one's body as a work of art, or an architectural framework, and see how to flesh things out (pun intended!) in ways that resonate.