Catty -- I think you are exactly right. My personality type does best with abstinence as opposed to moderation. I just cannot have one piece of cake or one piece of chocolate, but I can decide not to have any cake and be quite satisfied.
I'm so glad you posted that link. The thing that struck me the most were the comments from people who can moderate themselves and tell me I should learn to do so as well. I used to think they were actively trying to sabotage me, but now I realize they have a different means of achieving the same goal.
Unfrumped -- your comment was really fascinating. Your comment about the "natural conflict of interest in fashion professionals and even hobbiests as to the influence of new purchases" are exactly the words that I couldn't find when I was thinking about Angie's comment. I think all of the Forum Members that supported me since Day 1 demonstrates that we do support each other as much in dialing back, taking breaks, finding new outlets, as we can in celebrating the next new purchase. I was so pleasantly surprised at how many people understood me and offered incredibly helpful advice.
Joy and Cynthia -- Thank you. I can't take credit for the comment about creating wardrobe holes. I read it in the blog I linked to in my original post. But it did ring true to my ears.
Bonnie -- I followed your comments with great interest. Of course you should buy items you need when you find them on sale!! I don't intend to give up sales shopping indefinitely. I am going to learn to shop the sales less impulsively.
Laurel -- Thank you for your kind comment and support. I feel much the same way. It has been a relief to enjoy going into stores and seeing the spring merchandise, knowing that I will not be "choosing" or purchasing ANY of it! For me, it has been liberating and useful and empowering. LIBERATION RULES!!
Thank you, Suz. This purchasing fast has taught me a lot about my shopping triggers and motivations. I swear it gets easier and easier.
Here is the thing, LisaP. I too have been trying to plan for my Spring/Summer wardrobe. I too started a pinterest board with possible ideas. I am focusing on tops because tops are my most difficult-to-buy items. The problem is that my pinterest board has no cohesion!!!! It is still a bunch of random pictures of tops that piqued my interest and I thought might work for my climate/life style. It worries me that there is no cohesion. I wonder if that is an indication of my shopping style in general. I say I have a plan, but do I really?
Joyce -- Sometimes putting things in your cart for a few days is a powerful technique to optimizing purchases you really do want/need. I have used it successfully so many times in the past so I'm not exactly sure what happened with that Banana Republic purchase. I know I meant to empty my cart ..... yet.
LeDonna and Joyce -- I'll let you both know how the slacks fit. I own one pair of Ryan pants that I bought on deep, deep, deep discount. They are a bit big for me, but evidently, I like my clothes roomy. I love them and I hoped a second pair would be as successful. I admit they look differently in real life when compared to the stock photo.
So a funny story. I was at Nordstrom last year and I was interested in having a pair of slacks tailored. The tailor came in, looked at the pants, looked at my body, and told me I was wearing one size too large. If I bought the correct size, I wouldn't need tailoring. I was shocked. I tried on the smaller sized pants and yes I fit into them. But I imagined sitting at a desk all day in what I considered somewhat tight pants. I just couldn't bring myself to buy the correct size. I bought the larger size.