Just popping back in to say how much I appreciated the discussion this thread sparked.
I have indeed embraced some trends that go a little against traditional flattery for my body type (does anyone remember reading years ago that women with heavy legs should STAY AWAY from skinnies? And yet I wear them). I am in many cases quite content with JFE, and I think I have a pretty good handle on making cropped flares JFE.
I know what Lisa is getting at, and yes, I lament not having the kind of fashion-friendly figure that can wear all of these things and make them look cool and chic. I sometimes feel like I have to work a bit to style these types of looks to achieve the degree of flattery I'm after, but at that point, sometimes I feel like I might look a little try-hard. To Gaylene's point, if something feels a bit costumey, it's a sign.
That said, I really did feel pretty good about the cropped flare thing until hubs said his piece. It's rare that he really doesn't like a style I am willing to embrace, so I usually tend to respect his opinion.
Well, I've already bought some of the darn things, so I'll hurry up and wear them before he gets home from Texas again.