Wow- lots of ways to approach prints as elements of wardrobe creation here, from print domination to print avoidance, with all sorts of preferences and caveats in between. I have found the language people used very helpful in zeroing on how I should consider prints going forward. It is getting clearer what I should appreciate on others vs. incorporate into my own closet. Combining everyone's comments with their great style sensibilities is most illuminating.
Ruth- agree that execution and matching can matter so much. Still have poison eye for unmatched plaids and stripes. As to what makes a print "old lady", I think some variables are: is it dated, rather than classic, too sweet, too busy, too girly (I know, ironic), too cutesy. Tweeds can work and also incorporate a menswear vibe or not, depending on cut and colors.
Susie- with you on the graphic preference with limited florals.
Lyn- I love the idea of whimsy as rebellion. In today's work force, I think deliberately feminine clothes (and think of how men vs. women generally use prints-very different) really stand out. Does that make it a rebellious act or just a failure to buy into the norm that a masculine appearance is required to command respect and authority? Very interesting.
Joy- I like watercolor looks also, but am realizing that I have to be very careful to choose patterns with limited colors to avoid the muddy look on me.
The newer panel prints can be beautiful and have an almost architectural quality. I'll keep my out for more of those.
Rachy Lou- I share your "not too sweet" sensibilities. I tend to prefer many masculine aspects in my clothing, but clearly am not a member of "team tough" as Angie describes it.
Diana- gut feelings and clothing selections can go hand in hand. I am finding my gut is a good starting point, but then I have to take off my rose colored glasses and see what I could really be bringing home. Tapestry, geo and "no preppie" work well for you.
Texstyle- You have describe some good guidelines that fit with my style aspirations as well. Neutrals, subtle and fewer colors, low contrast prints could be welcome additions here.
Suz's comment about prints and style personae rings true throughout the postings here. Interesting about it being helpful to have patterns mimic one's proportions. I never considered that in quite that way.
DayVies- You are so gifted in putting together outfits that the absence of prints never struck me till you mentioned it. Great examples of how many variables can be used to elevate a look.
Peri- I know what you mean about prints being overwhelming or a bit challenging. It seems we are not alone (waving to Isabel, Deborah, and Sarah A). I am finding it very helpful to see how other people think about prints, because now I can better label what I am looking for as I make future print selections.
Linda- Inspiring to hear how you are working a variety of prints, with simple pattern mixing.
SarahA- Great to hear how considering prints and going with your gut can propel one's style forward incrementally. That is useful perspective.
Isabel- scarves seem to be a great focal point for prints and your point is well taken. I so understand about feeling conspicuous. If I am confident about what makes me stand out, I don't mind being conspicuous, but I have some prints that I never choose to leave the house in and they are out. I think my gut is telling me something and these posts are helping me articulate it better. The menswear concept will be central to many selections going forward.
Deborah- like you, I think prints will always play a background role in my wardrobe, though I like the idea of becoming more deliberate and skilled in using them. Tonal and neutral often works for me. Two key words to focus on.
DonnaF- I hear you about adding more prints and avoiding old lady. LOL about shuffleboard imagery. Very clarifying. Using patterns in pants is sometimes a dilemma for me. I have a pair of cream and black high contrast pants (an Angie pick from last year). I love them, but pair carefully because I do feel very conspicuous in them in a way that I would not the same print was in a top.
DonnaT- interesting how print choice varies with style evolution and also how certain ones become tired to our eyes with time. I remember when wide stripes were only on "muumuus" and circus tents, and now they are having their day. I like the square dot look also.
Goldenpig- queen of prints you are. You make "hyper-matchy" look so today and deliberate. You are the inverse of those who add a patterned scarf to a no-pattern outfit. Looking at your wardrobe provides lots of options for how to incorporate prints of all types.
Mander- High five on the tone on tone, menswear descriptors, with pattern in the weave of the fabric. That can read so today. Asian prints can also add a lot to the mix, and some are subtle as well.
Thanks for all the sharing. I think it is going to be easier for me to purge now that I have this input about the roles prints can play and how to think about what you want them to be relative to your style goals. This will be, as many of you have said, an ongoing process for me as well.