bj1111, and lisa P. Good heavens, I am cracking up.
bj1111, I think that is very nice, and probably some people who don't get compliments very often do from you. That has to be good for their morale. With, me I do like to give compliments, but only when something grabs my attention. I never look for something to compliment someone, unless it is A friend. I ALWAYS compliment a friend and have done that so long that is second nature and I instantly come up with a compliment. BJ, just curious, do you compliment men very often? I do not compliment men unless I know them, but always compliment male friends. For instance, in a grocery store, or anywhere for that matter, I would never compliment a male that I didn't know. I have many times felt I would like to ask them to pull their pants up or maybe wear a belt but never have.
lisa p, please don't take this as a compliment! I am glad you posted. This forum is for everybody's opinion.
And to be perfectly honest, while I like to compliment, my original post here was because I worry that someone would not want to hear a compliment, whatever the reason.
If ever bj1111, lisa P and bridgie (me) were in a mini meet up---- well I am cracking up just thinking about it. But hey, it would be nice!